I'm telling you for the last time!

Okay people! I'm telling you for the last time.

Yesterday my best friend came from Chicago, so I had to be generous with him. I took him a few places. We know each other for a very long time, and always tell each other almost about anything.

I remember when he got married a few years ago, and heck I sure do remember his divorce too. Hell of a life eh?

Okay than lets start.

I am not a fun of "so-called" experts. How do they think? What do they think, and the most important how the hell they go along with girls as easy as looking for toilette paper in a drag-mart store.

I know for a fact that everyone of us always try to cover and hide the mystery of dating, because we never know actually what is going to happen anyway. The journeys of dating can various from a 5-star outstanding adventure to a slow shitty bus ride.

Anyway, this friend of mine is being so mad about him self, (and, God I hope he doesnt read this Lol) he is anxious about being single for a relatively long time.

At first, this is normal for all of us, but please being single is not a desperate situation.

I listened to his story and to be honest with you, I told him this: - "Sometime the best thing to think, is NOT to think at all". He gave me a look like I was coming from another planet.

I mean, who cares anymore that on our first date a guy should be very careful about what he says. What is more important to be careful, choose our words and than later one our partner to discover that we are full of shit and nothing more..?

I my self, hate this kind of girls, who always expect guys to be the mood of the first date. Make them laugh, keep them interested about what is going on etc.. I say NO.

Spontaneous is my weapon and if you dont like it, that is not my problem. Dont you think you are looking for more than you are giving.

I know that there are certain unspoken, unwritten rules, but hey, rules are made so we can break them and feel happy about it.

Lets get back to my friends reality. He was telling me that he ruined a couple of dates, cause he wasnt being an interesting guy. Hack of a situation eh..?

I still dont understand why some girls look at their first date like a very careful step.

Hey, It is a goddamn date not your last day in earth.

At some point we all are looking for ways to take control of our life, whether is our relationship or else. Daily challenges have a way of overwhelming us, making life harder. Is that what we need to do?

I know in my life, Ive been in my friend s situation, but believe it or not, I think I got my remedy. I remember I heard one quote once: - "To dream of the person you would like to be, is to waste the person you are". Pretty hard achievement eh? Well, deal with it. I did!

I know I'm keeping you here stuck with me, to figure out where am I going, so lets cut the chit chat.

I'm telling you, like I told my friend for the last time:

LET YOUR LIFE TO BE EASY.

1. Always speak the truth.
2. Ask your self what you really want.
3. Take responsibilities for your experiences.
4. Keep your agreement.
5. Add good-feeling to your life.
6. Be self-worth in your life.
7. Ad creativity to your life.
8. Live in an existent, hand-touchy reality.

Whether its heaven or hell, we are the ones who created our life. We are the ones who constantly struggle with relationships, career, etc. People say life is hell but life I think never was meant to be a struggle.

Finally: If you don't like my statement, munch my shit. If youre still unhappy, sue me. He.., I already got my point. I killed you...

Have a nice life!!!