The WHO the WHERE and more...

They call me Dr. Zhivago!

Pay strict attention to what I say because I choose my words carefully and I never repeat my self.

I have told you my name. That is the "WHO". The "WHERE" could most readily be described as cubicle office somewhere in USA. But there is a vast difference between being stuck in a tine little office and being in a real prison office. The "WHAT" is easy. Last week I planned and set in motion events to execute. The perfect runaway escape. That is also the WHEN. As for the "WHY", beyond the spiritual motivation, it is exceedingly simple: Because I could which, leaves us only with the "HOW". And therein, as the Bard would tell us lay the free will.

We all are the sum. of the choices we make and sometime we choose the easy path and make things we later regret. And when we make a wrong choice and do the wrong thing we are stuck with it forever.

You can obviously ask me who did the wrong thing I'm here to right? Hehehe...., pretty clever. I am not here to set anything right. I am here because I enjoy it.

Through the time people had called me "crazy" and "unusual" besides the good words. "Unpredictable" is the most lovely humanly compliment you can always serve me from time to time. If that...

Good day everyone!

Do you think.....?

Do you think? When was the last time you really sat down and thought about something? Was it a few minutes, days ago or a few months ago? We are so reliant on someone else thinking for us that we have become a co-dependent culture.

Did you wake up this morning or are you still dreaming? Or are you possibly in a computer generated and controlled world that will keep you there until you wake up?

Are people fond of you or do people hate you? Maybe as you were walking past that person this morning and you said hi and they smiled and waved back, they were just doing it to make you go away. Or maybe they have a crush on you.

Is there really an afterlife or do you just die and cease to exist? A Heaven? A Hell? And ghosts. Are they there? Are they what give you the shivers when you're waking up in the middle of the night, wondering if someone is lurking around the corner? ALiens? Do they exist or are they just some media generated piece of America's collection of dreams?

If they do exist, are they of higher level of intelligence, lower, or the same? Would they be out to harm us, be friendly, or just be like us? Would they be us? Maybe they have blue skin, twenty tentacles on their head, and purple hair. Or maybe they look just like us and exist in some far corner of the universe. And, yes, the universe.

Have you ever thought about how far the universe goes? Does it ever end? Maybe if one went far enough they'd reach some place of being beyond a human's comprehension? Wormholes also referred to as "black holes" ; there is a theory that states that if someone were to be sucked into one that they would be "speghettified" meaning that they would be stretched into an impossible length to be accomplished on earth.

If they were to also be sucked through to the other end, would they end up at another place in time, maybe 100.000 years in the future or 200,000 years in the past? Black holes have such a strong gravitational force that they suck light away. Where does the light go?

Where do all the missing socks in the dryer go? If you could go back to being a baby in your mother's womb, would you be able to realize what was going on and would you remember it for the rest of your life or for a short period of time? If you went back in time to the age of two years, by the time you got to the age of 16, would you be any smarter? Or would everything simply be remedial? Just a thought for those of you out there who haven't really sat down and had a good thought today...

What if nothing exists and we are all in somebody's dream?

What if nothing exists and we are all in somebody's dream? Or what's worse, what if only that fat ass girl with an ugly face in the third row exists?

Wouldn’t that be a disaster? Let’s not get to cocky. I’m just saying my friends because I am allowed to. The best reason for having dreams is that in dreams no reasons are necessary so, not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted.

Relax and breathe. You are living too even though the fat ass girl now is stuck in your small mind and messing it.

Sometime I do not feel gratified to believe that the same God who has gifted us with sense, motivation, and intellect has intended us to decline their use but lets not open that would. Most of the time WE DO and this is true even though we always tend to decline it.

I always loved talking or writing about dreams and the way they affect us. I mean what in the Gods names are these dreams for..? We think and we think over and over this and never get to a spot where everything is clear enough. I can say that our thoughts are in fact dreams. The reason we don’t believe that is that we haven’t tried them yet.

Our dreams drench us in senses, and senses steps us again in dreams. Is this a joke or a real statement? How many times we woke up in the morning and said to our self: -Wow that was weird.., I though about making out with her last night and boom it happened in my dream so quick. (What an example .Anyway...LoL)

To accomplish great things we must not only act but also dream, not only plan but also believe and to believe in one's dreams is to spend all of one's life asleep. Hehehe.. Not really folks, just focus and you will get my point. We all know that nothing great in the world has ever been accomplished without passion. Think about all this as once was just a dream. It sounds funny doesn’t it? Everything is funny as long as it is happening to somebody else but try to wear my burden and you will experience the influence of my dream.

Facts are stubborn things; and whatever may be our wishes, our inclinations, or the dictates of our passions, they cannot alter the state of facts and evidence. Oversleeping will never make one's dreams come true. Don’t get me wrong I love sleeping but I hate when you snore while reading this.

My friends: - Dream lofty dreams, and as you dream, so shall you become. Your vision is the promise of what you shall one day be; your ideal is the prophecy of what you shall at last unveil. Don’t you love this?!

I once heard that the first ingredient of success -- the earliest spark in the dreaming youth -- if this; dream a great dream.

Huh.., I see the fat ass ugly girl is getting closer. I’m getting out of here.

Barking thoughts about women

I chased a girl for two years only to discover that her tastes were exactly like mine: I was right. We were both crazy about girls. I moved on....

I thought maybe I could get married so I was so close when suddenly heard a voice in my head: - "Why would you wanna make one woman so miserable when you can make so many women very happy?" I moved on....

As I was walking down the street I saw a woman wearing a sweatshirt with "Guess" on it. I said, 'Thyroid problem?' I laughed.. I walked away. I think everyone knows that a woman knows she's wearing the right dress, when her man wants to take it off.

Once again to this marriage shit... Instead of getting married again, I'm just going to find a woman I don't like and just give her a house. Maybe I am wrong but I am a man and that is what we do. I surely know that a woman's guess is much more accurate than a man's certainty but what else is new now days. Behind every successful man is a woman, behind her is his wife.

A girl phoned me the other day and said ... Come on over, there's nobody home. I went over. Nobody was home. Gee I love science fictions

Women have a passion for mathematics. They divide their age in half, double the price of their clothes, and always add at least five years to the age of their best friend. So after realizing this I found out that I always dated 25 years old girls. Hm., isnt that a coincidence?

Well I have to move on again. There is a dog barking on the street and I dont know why it reminds me of this saying: - "Guys are like dogs. They keep coming back. Ladies are like cats. Yell at a cat one time....they're gone."

Oops, there is a cat walking besides the dog. What a life..?

On the devil’s side.....

I am sure inside all of us there is god and there is bad. I am dumping my bad out. Stay tight; this ride has no coming back. You are with me now.

Do you know how this all thing works? You've got enemies you never heard of. …and now? Now you're down? I'd prepare for a class-A, BIG season pig-fuck. You're going to have to ask yourself who you really trust. Who do you trust, if you really do trust anyone?

I'll tell you, my friend, because I know you're into divinity. When you've seen -- when you've represented -- when you've dealt with as many people as I have over the years, finally you say to yourself, 'God must have been awfully bored.'

Choice. The opportunity to mess up. Talk about entertainment value. You're right about one thing... I have been watching. Couldn't help myself. Watching, waiting, holding my breath. But I'm no puppeteer, my friend.

... I don't make things happen. Doesn't work like that. Free will -- it's like butterfly wings -- one touch and it never gets off the ground. I only set the stage. You pull your own strings.

Yes, I might be a sinner. I fucked your girlfriend. On a scale of One to Ten, Ten being the most depraved acts of sexual theater, One being an average Friday night run-through at the Dr. Zhivago household, I'd say...Six. (Hahaha….)

Wow, you are getting mad at me. You are pulling the trigger at me. Whoa... Got me! Damn! (heheh…………) That's my friend. Step on up! Stay angry! Keep hold to that great fury! Hang on tight, because it's the final fig leaf.

You have the right to ask me. Who am I..? Well I have so many names but that is not important right now.

You loved you Girlfriend though? Hey, it's not that you didn't care for her, it's just you were a little bit more involved with someone else. Yourself!

Excuse me..? What the hell do I know about love?

Bio-chemically no different than eating large quantities of chocolate. Don't be such a fucking chump. There's only one real sickness in all of creation and that is self-delusion.

I told you to take care of your girlfriend once -- that the world would understand. And you made a choice. You wanted to fuck more and more…

You know what scares me, my friend? After every girl you fuck, you get better at it and I hate you for it... Remember? You cheated yesterday too. It was a blast I am sure but what next...? I see you have another girl for tonight too. Are you sure..?

Exactly! Vanity is definitely my favorite sin. ( I am sure you have heard this before) Self love. It's so basic. What a drug. Cheap, all-natural, and right at your fingertips. Pride. That's where you're strongest. And believe me, I understand. Work for someone else? -- Hey, I couldn't hack it. 'Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven.' And what do I want from you? What do I want? I want you to be yourself!

God's your prankster, my friend. Think of it. He gives man instincts. He gives you this extraordinary gift and then, I swear to you -- for his own amusement -- his own private, cosmic gag reel -- he sets the rules in opposition. It's the goof of all time.

Look but don't touch.

Touch but don't taste.

Taste but don't swallow.

And while you're jumping from one foot to the other he's laughing his sick fucking ass off! He's a tight-ass. He's a sadist. He's an absentee landlord! Worship that? your choise.

I'm here, on the ground, with my nose in it since the whole damn thing began. Why? Because I worship man himself. And it's my time now. Our time.

Free will. It's a bitch. The only thing I am afraid of… (huh...)

What did you say..? What am I offering?

I'm offering bliss. Instant bliss. Bliss by remote control. Bliss on tap. that first line of cocaine. That walk into a strange girl's bedroom.

Freedom. Revolution! Viva la causa!

Don't be too hard on yourself. You're coming out, guns blazing.

NOTE: impressed by a movie!

Who we match with and why…?

Match? Is there such a thing? Who do we match with? I think the first issue is to know who we are and what we are about. Once we know this then we can work out whom we can possibly match with.

That innocent comment is where a lot of people fall down. I am often surprised how little people take a good look at themselves. You may feel that you perfectly suit Brad Pitt or Pamela Anderson but then do you really know that much about them as people, and would they go for someone like you?

Sure we often want to match ourselves with people of certain look and physical properties and that is entirely natural. However if we weigh 300 lb. and have never seen the inside of a gym then I think its fair to say that we may not be the perfect match to a sportsman or a model. Why? Well simply because nature tells us that we match with likes. On a base level we are here, says nature, to procreate and so we select consequently.

Matching with someone on a simply physical level is not enough to last. Sex is a part of any relationship to some degree so looks do matter, even if to a small amount. I often hear some people say that appearance is not important to them and I am always impressed. What they really mean is that looks are not important as along as you like the look of that person already. Looks are only ever important if you do not!

The sentence 'The beauty comes from within...' came to mind for a second.

We all discuss, chat, talk, debate, joke, laugh, etc. and it is all because we are identifying with each other and building the basics of an emotional bond. It may be found in a shared experience or hobby, activity or event. It may be found in opposing powerful views discovered in conversation accompanied by profound respect and deep-seated desire to extend this connection further. It may be that we share the same type of pet, a similar liking for certain foods even similar books we read, but they are emotional connections that are essential in establishing any connection. As we can see, initial matching is a complex scenario.

The next important factor in any match is location. I could match with someone right now in Australia, but unless I am in Australia then it doesnt help me begin a relationship. I may consider flying to Australia to meet my match but then can I sustain my match and help us grow? Well of course that depends on the two individuals involved, their circumstances, position, age, regularity of meeting and planned future. The reality as we know for single people is that long distance matches tend not to work unless both parties come together quite quickly after meeting

One thing often overlooked in matching with someone is humor. Yes we often specify that someone must have a great sense of humor. And everyone reading this will say, yes they have a great sense of humor. What makes one person laugh does not make another person laugh. And yet I watch so many people co-exist without every laughing together and it makes me sad. A solid relationship will have moments where common laughter is essential, where the sense of humor between two people is almost unspoken. That I believe is one of the key ingredients in any true match. You may really be attracted to someone but if they dont make you laugh you may be wasting your time.

Background sometimes has an influence in a good matching scenario because it has prepared you both with similar social experiences and belief systems. This may be true of schooling, parental experiences; locations lived in, travel undertaken, or even just activities and sports accomplished. This is a wide area and there are no definite but we do know from decades of surveys and evidence that people do tend to stay romantically within their own social strata. This means that people stay with those who they feel most comfortable with. This may be because their common experience and understanding promotes the feeling of a good match.

Outlook on life really is underestimated. If you both have the same goals in life you may make a great match. If you have differing career goals, travel plans, ambitions and personal goals, you could be wasting your time together. There is a huge temptation to offer to compromise when you really meet someone you feel you match with. Whatever it is, the more you share, the stronger your match is likely to be.

So in the end we meet someone. We like the look of them and they like the look of us, we laugh and chat together, we build an emotional link through conversation and knowledge and we are attracted to each other on multiple levels. We find we have a shared experience through our backgrounds and we share similar outlook on life and oh yes, we live in the same neighborhood. Match made in heaven? Perhaps, and possibly not.

Love is not just about matching; it is about instant chemistry, something enigmatic and mysterious, not quantifiable. For all the right reasons we can fall in love in an instant with the wrong people and then again, we can simply not find it within us to love someone who appears so right.

And for that, I have no answer.

Basic principles: How to sweep a woman off her feet !

So what do you say I tell you a little bit what is really going on in your head ladies and better yet tell my buddies how they can easily get a woman "swept off her feet"?

I'm sure you are dying to read this, cause is coming from a guy's head and as most of you say: "Men are good for nothing" well let see if you agree with me in this one:

Basic principles: No woman wakes up saying: - "God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today." Now, she might say: - "This is a really bad time for me." Or something like, "I just need some space." Or my personal favorite: "I'm really into my career right now."

- You believe that? Neither does she. You know why? Because she's lying to you, that's why. You understand me? Lying.

It's not a bad time for her. She doesn't need any space. She may be into her career... but what she's really saying is, "Get away from me now." Or possibly, "Try harder, stupid."

Well, which one is it?

1. 60 % of all human communication is nonverbal.

2. Body language. 30 % is your tone.

So that means that 90 % of what you're saying...isn't coming out of your mouth? Shit!

So…, my friend so fare You thought you were doing the right think. Hahahah… Of course she'll lie to you. She's a nice person; she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. What else is she going to say? She doesn't even know. Yet. Luckily, the fact is that just like the rest of us... even a beautiful woman doesn't know what she wants until she sees it. And that's why I opened this wound today. My point in here is to open your eyes.

Oh, my God! Was this what you're looking for?

Basic principles: - No matter what, no matter when, no matter who... any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet. Just needs the right broom.

You cannot use what you do not have. So if you're shy, be shy. If you're outgoing, be outgoing.

- I'm not outgoing.

- That's okay.

She may not want the whole truth, but she does want the real you. She may not want to see it all at once, but she does want to see it. So tonight, when you're wondering what

to say, how you look, or if she likes you... just remember, she is already out with you.

That means she said yes when she could have said no. That means she made a plan when she could have just blown you off. So that means it is no longer your job to try to make her like you. It is your job not to mess it up.

- The shoes are hot. You went to the place I told you?

-Yeah, but I don't think they're really me.

-"You" is a very fluid concept right now. You bought the shoes. You look great in the shoes. That's THE YOU I'm talking about.

The key tonight is hang back. Give her plenty of space. If she lingers at a photograph, move on. But maintain the visual. It's supposed to be… and clear tonight.

So when you leave the club, walk a little. Ask her what she thought about the show.. what was her favorite photograph, why that one.

And when she answers, don't be looking at her mouth. Don't be wondering what she looks like naked. Listen to what she is saying and respond. Listen and respond.

That way, when it's your turn to talk...you'll have something better to say than, "I like your mouth."

- What was your favorite one? The elephant, definitely.

And all of a sudden, we're on date number two.

-Ready...? No way. We're going back in there. You have to smile. In case you didn't go to high school, hitting is a good thing.

So how does it happen, great love? Are you okay?

- Nobody knows.

- I'm good.

Let me get a Grey Goose Martini on the rocks and a Rum and Coke for the lady. But what I can tell you is that it happens in the blink of an eye. One moment, you're enjoying your life. And the next, you're wondering how you ever lived without them. Three dates is all I need.

Three dates, and I'll get you here, to the high-stakes medal round... where eight out of ten women believe that the first kiss... will tell them everything they need to know about the relationship.

After that, you're on your own. But always remember... life is not the amount of breaths you take. It's the moments that take your breath away.

We never know where we going until we truly know where we have been.!

NOTE: All in favor of an old friend of mine. I think He got a date tonight.