Escaping from a day like this!

I am wake this morning, earlier than usual, is one of those moment when I hardly try to get up of my bad, all messy from my last night dreams, Ready to hit the road. Everything is so clear and pure right in front of my eyes, and yet so confused about it.

Here I am try to find my cigarettes, half ready for a new day, and yet lazy for a new adventure. Before the truth goes back to hiding, I look at my self in the mirror, try to decide, what is worth deciding, probably to work on finding, something more than this doubts in my head. It takes so much out of me, to pretend I know all this.

So, I leave my house, no reason, no one to see, just my "coat" and I. I don't know sometime is really nice to go out just with your self. No disturbance. It's cold outside and man it feels good to be worm. So, I ask my self: - "tell me now, tell me how to make a mess?". Maybe, I need to see a day like this, to live behind half of my life. Don't you see I'm breaking down? Lately, somehow I don't feel right. This is just half of my life. Is there really no escape, no escape from time?

I keep try to understand, this thing and no-thing my fellow friends; I guess I let you know when I get rid of it. I don't mind a few mysteries, they can stay, and that is fine by me. But you are another mystery that I am missing. It takes too much out of me to pretend I know.

Make me, compose me, discover me, surf me. I want to see a day like this, send me from this half of my life. Lets you and I escape, try to escape from this era. We can come back again anytime. Just one moment will be enough. Lets go through the undiscovered place, bee nuts and never worried for anything. Platonic thought always make me hit the ground. It hurts, it's bloody, but at list that is where I get up again and see where I am. I guess I want to escape from this shit-hole time, be another "Me", someone that I'd be interested about it. I'm tired of a day like this...

Make me!

Love-hate connection...

Every human relationship is to one degree or another love-hate connection. It makes us look into the mirror of our life as it helps us reconcile the opposing feeling of it.

I have read once a little story that I would like to share it with you:

A woman told a man:
- I love you!
The man answered:
- My heart deserves your love!
The woman said:
- Perchance you do not love me?
And the man looked up to her and kept silent:

Than the woman shouted:
- I hate you!
And the man said:
- In that case, my heart also deserves your hatred.

Isn’t this something picky?

Self-exposure changes both the person who speaks and the person who listen. Is this too much we look for in a relationship? Most of the time in our first dates we always deal with this kind of situations. Behind all the hit and excitement lies the dark side of our fear whether to trust or not trust our new partner, whether IS or IS NOT a spotless situation.

I tell you this my virtual friends:

When I open up before you, be it in a passing confidence or in a long introverted mood, I am literally being myself, before you, and by being myself in your eyes, I myself expressed in my words and in my own eyes too. I know myself better as I struggle to put into words, what so far was only speechless, experience. I gain perspective as I break the monologue of my own memory. I see my failure and my hits as I guess your silent reaction to my truthful unveiling.

So, I change while I speak of myself before you, in trustful empathy. And you too, change when listening to me, as glimpses of another life enlighten your own, by contrast or support, as you see the common striving for human excellence in the different while similar circumstances of a life close to yours.

I hide myself some of the dark corners of my personality and spare myself the ache of facing them, and I come to think honestly that, in spite of weaknesses and shortcoming, which I certainly have and admit, I am free from serious vices or notable failures.

Why Women Lie?

I’d like to talk this time about “Why women lie”.

Without any doubts women lie, and to be more specific, very often. Though they much more easily can catch a lying men – he said that was organized an important party with the clients in his workplace, but he just gone to the gin-shop in the city with his friends. Or he boasts about his skills in papering walls, but he only damaged the room. Or he swears he had taken a dog for a walk though actually he was watching a basketball match.

We, men lie 4-5 times more than women. But the women do everything in a professional way, because they can be pompous of having a great oratory skill. The secret is simple.

The psyche of the human who is telling lie kind of resolves into two parts: – the one, which knows the truth and the other which tells fish stories. For this reason many pauses emerge in a speech and men usually fulfill it with various “hmm”, “eee”, ect. While the women’s stream of perception is so rapid that they doesn’t need to make any breaks. Even when they haven’t prepared to provide an excuse actually.

I think women lie in order to make her company feel comfy, while men lie by seeking to create a better image about themselves. In addition, women feel the borders of tactical lie very delicate. Mostly they spray in an elegant way without making others to feel angry or offended. Sadly, but the lie of men often is very bold, rough and hurtful.”

Have you ever noticed (all you guys out there) that women learn and fall into a habit to tell a lie by saying the things that “WE”, men want to hear?

One thing is true. Women lie, because they don’t feel safe. They usually minimize the quantity of her partners and maximize the age speaking about her first time. This could be considered as a consequence of public belief that girl should be naïve and faithful. It is like an inside wish of all the men.

Women seek for the acceptance not only in the workplace, but also in the circle of her friends. They hide the mistakes and emphasize the episodes of success. For this reason even the easiest works they describe as very hard, demanding the struggle and intellectual skills. For the same appreciation women lie about their appearance.

In all this crappie words I said before, I would like to highlight the idea that at some point is without doubt “US” the ”male” species that indicate in the habit of women lying.

The difference between making love and having sex

I used to think there was no difference between making love and having sex. That distinction seemed wholly fabricated by the evil unit responsible for many women's magazines and Harlequin romance-style novels.

You see, I am a man. That means I have needs, and any time that happens, it managed to find a little female companionship, well, call it what you will, but it was all good. Pretty much. Cuddle afterward — or don't. Show up with flowers next time — or don't. Phone the next day — or don't.

Some people might choose to argue over semantics. I, on the other hand, was busily engaged in trying to help my self find a new female vacation spot.

Let me explain:

You see, I have fallen for this girl once, in a big way (not anymore though). Suddenly, I knew there was a difference — and what, exactly, that difference was. It's not that we don't get "fast and furious". Rather, for the first time, I am profoundly aware that making love is fundamentally a process — a long, unbelievably enticing, terribly wonderful encounter that's all about discovering every possible way two people can connect sexually.

Even better, the more in love you are, the more ways to connect.

Sex, on the other hand, is about two people using one another to get off, which is fine and good. But making love is a journey of utter pleasure that is only possible when you increasingly cannot imagine not having that person in your life.

Still confused? Just refer to this handy list I've devised:

Making Love: You can't wait to wake up with her.
Having Sex: You can't wait to wake up.

Making Love: You talk and giggle into the small hours.
Having Sex: You have little to say other than, "So, our sex organs really fit together there, now don't they."

Making Love: You wake up staring into her opalescent blue eyes.
Having Sex: You wake up staring at her (um, I forget what color) eyes.

Making Love: You wonder how you ever got through the night without holding and kissing her.
Having Sex: You wonder how you're going to get through the night without holding and kissing Smelly, your loyal, prodigiously slobbering Great Dane–pit bull mix.

Still confused? Well, sorry so am I after I read this blog. Lol

Why do we spend our time like this?

We do not claim to be better people, or more clever or wiser than others, just that we have discovered a way of life that not everyone has heard about. Some have heard, but have not given it a try. Some think it is boring, old fashioned or just plain weird.

We started by realizing that however hard we try, we are not going to succeed on our own. As we think about life in this world we come to realize that it is far to complex to have evolved by accident - we think there must be a “maker” behind it somewhere.

We agree with the suggestion that if you were walking along a forest path and you found a watch lying on the ground you would have to assume that somewhere there was a watchmaker. We think that there is a real God who is behind the creation of the world and all us people in the world.

We think that God intended life in the world to be good, and that he did not want all the problems that there are. But it has been spoilt over the years.

Usually if anything is not working properly the first thing to do is to look at the maker's instruction book. We know that book as the Bible, and we try to understand from it how we should live so that things will go better.

We find that life does go much better once we have found how to know God as a personal friend and helper. Still over the centuries people try to create their own little world without God’s help, and only when they have no other realistic choice than they find the power to call GOD.

Why?

Should We Break Up?

I know that breaking up with someone is the hardest thing to do. But let me tell you something: Your heart will tell you when something isn't right!!

GO by that HONESTLY. When I was younger, before I met my lovely wife, I've been in relationships and still some how I knew right than that something wasn’t functioning, as it was suppose to.

The truth of the matter is, you know when your heart skips a beat when you see that person, and you know when your heart doesn't. People act like they can change how they feel. You CAN'T change how you feel and if you could, people wouldn't have the problems in relationships they do. If you feel like maybe this truly isn't what you want in a relationship, it's time to leave.

I know it's hard especially if you have been with them for a long time, or are worried about finding that right person, or for the fear of being alone. And the answer to that is that's normal. You may be afraid, but the longer you drag a unhappy relationship, the more unfair it is to the other person. Or you can stay with them, and always think well what if I broke up with them when I first had these feelings? The longer you stay with them the harder it will be for them, and that’s not fair to either of you.

Love is a two way street, you either want to love them and be with them, or do both of you a favor and get out. When you start to fall out of love Bad things can happen, cheating is the number one of things that happens when you fall out of love. And if you cheat that is a Red flag that that person really isn't for you. You don't hurt people you love and if you do you don't love them.

I believe there are a lot of readers here that are in this situation. I’ve been before my self. I know is hard but if you already like someone else and want to grow a relationship with him/her than the best thing to do is: TELL YOUR PARTNER - ’It is over”. No matter how hard it might be at first, he/she will understand later on.

Don’t be scared to do the right thing no matter how hard it is, in the right moment. Everything happens for a reason. Maybe it is the time for you to move on…

Wake Up Call

I hope you like Phil Collins, because that is what I am serving here today.

This is the Lyric from one of his songs.

Wake Up Call

This is your wake up call... young hearts be free

Get up, get on, get out about and shout it
Tell 'em all you're dressed and on your way
Oh there's absolutely no doubt about it
This is your wake up call
You're gonna miss it all

Am I the only one out there that's listening
Cos it's such a lovely noise that I can hear
Eyes are opening up to all around them
This is their wake up call
They're gonna miss it all

Can you feel what's happening here
Everything is changing all around you
It's in the air, electricity
Everybody, yes everybody's waking up
Good morning to you

You're not the only one out there who's running
But the man who's sitting next to you's asleep
So pick him up and shake him till he hears you
This is his wake up call
He's gonna miss it all

Can you feel what's happening here
Everything is changing all around you
It's in the air, electricity
Everybody, yes everybody's waking up
Good morning to you

Those who've done all they can do sleep easy
Those that turn away, they sleep alone
But there's no doubt about it absolutely
This is a wake up call
We 're gonna miss it all

This is your wake up call
This is your wake up call
This is your wake up call
You're gonna miss it
You're gonna miss it all

Enjoy it.

I already did!